Labor Day Sex Holiday

K and I really wanted a long weekend together. It's nice to fuck one another, have some romance and just spend time with one another, alas it was not to be. I shouldn't really complain, most people would love to fuck the women I do and enjoy our life style. But sometimes we just want quality time by ourselves, is that too much to ask??????

Friday

Friday night we were hanging out on our deck looking at the ocean, sipping wine, getting buzzed and we didn't care if we would get drunk. As usual we started getting touchy with one another and went inside to fuck. We did so, and fucked on the couch, then we drank some more and we holding each other naked. We are very comfortable with one another and tell each other our secrets and feelings. It's the core of our relationship, yes I know the sex is important.

We finally went to bed, half drunk and fooling around with each other. I hear a noise downstairs, put on my pants, take out my gun and see what's going on.

I scream, because it's Debbie!!!! I almost shot her.

Debbie is like our permanent house guest. At 36 years old, the body of a porn star and is always horny. She also has a 20 year daughter who is just like her. Debbie works for K at the gym and is a part time dancer also. No drugs, no smoking, but does like to drink. She loves sex and is one of K's friends. When I mean friends, I mean sex friends. We have known Debbie about 5 years now. She really is a nice lady, a bit screwed up, but none the less very nice. It has only been within the last year that I have started to fuck her. Sometimes alone, sometimes with K, but she really has stamina and enjoys sex.

Her daughter, Heather is horny as well I have fucked her too, sometimes with her mother , or alone, or with K. I know this sounds crazy but that is what goes on within our house.

Debbie has a key to our house and comes and goes as she pleases, no questions asked. Sometimes I don't notice her and find her watching K and I having sex. Kind of creepy but that's the way it goes.

I told her I almost shot her because I thought someone was breaking in. She apologized to me in her usual way of kissing me and rubbing my cock. I got hard, she pulled my sleep pants down and sucked me dry. K fell asleep from the drinking so Debbie and I fucked on the couch. She stayed the night and we woke up with her in bed with us in the morning.

Saturday

I love to see both of them fuck together, it's so hot. I left them both, went to shower and now downstairs writing this.

I know in a few hours Heather will pop in, "Ms Fuck me now-I want it bad" . We will probably take an extra day and come back Wed.

I am writing this in parts as the holiday progresses.

So right, Heather came over in the afternoon. She was soaking wet from the ocean, didn't even bother to dry off. She was wearing a wrap around, showing everything off. Of course she came when Debbie & K weren't home. Heather asked me straight out if we are alone and I nodded yes, smiling she opened her wrap, completely naked. Wanna fuck now ? Is that the only thing she thinks about. We went into the shower and we fucked, then again on my bed, then once more on the couch downstairs. The girls came just as we finished and commented to me they were hungry. No mention of the fucking I just had with Heather.

Mommy and daughter left and we were alone again, which suited is just fine. K asked me if I liked fucking Heather, I of course answered yes. She told me I am a naughty boy and I need to be taught a lesson.

She grabbed my hand and pulled me upstairs. We went into the shower and she told me to kneel down in front of her, I knew what was coming. She pee'd on me, all over me. I washed myself off and she laughed asking me if I liked that and I did. I turned her around and spanked her ass until it was red, she liked that too.

Later in bed we went in 69, I didn't need to have sex , I needed the oral. Her teeth on my cock and squeezing my balls. My tongue fucking her pussy and asshole. She likes that a lot, I guess we both do.

Sunday

I learned a long time ago to always pleasure your partner before yourself. Don't be bashful and ask what she wants and if she likes it. I have been very successful with my sexual partners, I am a good student.
Beautiful day at the beach. K wore this suit, if you call it a suit. The top is a piece of Lycra that is stretched across her breasts. The bottom is a string that goes up her ass that just about covers her pussy. She loves to show off. Her stomach is very tight and defined and legs that I wouldn't call muscular, rather like a race horse. We went into the water, it has finally warmed up. The problem is it's choppy because of the storms. The young surfer guys and girls love this. We don't hide our affection for one another and we kiss in the water, but that's all we do, no sex because it's a family beach and we respect that. We dried each other off and walked back to the house. I am so happy we installed outside showers to rinse off. I even made it private that we can be naked and walk into the house. I really like walking around naked in the house. One of K's friends called wanting to come over but she told her we are going out. I appreciate that. Instead we went upstairs and had sex.


Monday

Impossible to take off Tuesday , I got an early call, important meeting tomorrow. We are enjoying our last day off, this should be done often. We didn't go on the beach today, rather we walked the boardwalk, ate out and played the arcade, just like the tourists. People are starting to leave for the ride home, we can't wait. It will become peaceful again. This coming weekend we invited friends of ours to stay. Will we all have sex together, swap, who knows. We don't plan these things, it just happens. I am not planning that, all I am saying is if that happens, I am ok with it.

Night time, sitting outside on the deck, watching everyone, K 's leg over mine, drinking a Bud light..... nice holiday after all

Swinging in London

As I wrote in my first post, this blog is suppose to be therapeutic for me. It brings me into another world of writing and I can escape the day to day stress. So why do I write about sex? It's something I enjoy very much, separately or together with my wife or even with others.

I have done swinging two times and I don't think I will do it again. Once when I was young and an older woman brought me with her as her boy toy. The second time was a few months ago in London, on business.

First I must tell you the women in England are horny as can be, and love sex. They don't care who they fuck. I say that because I am just an average guy and still women wanted to fuck me. Not just older women, very young girls too.

In England, a lady by the name of Wendy was assigned to me to find lodging, where to eat, etc. Since I was going to be there for a while I needed a place. On the second night Wendy came over to my hotel on the pretense of showing me some photos of where I was going to live. She also brought some wine with her and through out our conversation her skirt went high up her thighs and I saw her pussy was shaved.

I am pretty horny most of the time and missed my wife next to me. I love it when she climbs on top of me and we fuck. Well that night was no exception and I became hard seeing Wendy's pussy. She was straight to the point and asked if I had a problem, which was obvious I did, stiff as a rod. She excused herself to go to the bathroom and then came out completely naked. A beautiful woman, perfect round breasts and her pussy lips were close together. I undressed and we just started to fuck, no foreplay, just a fuck. Then we licked and sucked each other, maybe another time we fucked, but she stayed the night.

My wife called me later and Wendy was still with me. She asked me if I was being taken care of and I put Wendy on the phone. They chatted a bit and then my wife told me she will be there in two days.

I was happy K was there with me and we went to dinner with Wendy. Afterwards we went upstairs and had a threesome together, again Wendy staying the night.

The next day Wendy told us she had a surprise for us. That Saturday night there was to be a swingers party. Not just any party, very elite professional couples will be attending, no trash. K was much more interested than I was to go, but I said OK. Only thing was we were to go to a certain Doctor and have tests run to make sure we are healthy.

We arrived at this Doctor's office, which I thought was a clinic for welfare people. When I told the nurse we were sent here from Wendy we were ushered in right away , no waiting. The room had two tables and the nurse told us to take all our clothes off. When I asked her for a gown, she just smiled at me and walked away. Both of us were naked, each on own table. The nurse came in and first took blood from K and then did a pelvic exam. I noticed it was more than just an exam since I saw K was getting very turned on. They gave her a shot of something and left. Then another nurse came in for me. I was a bit aroused since I imagined myself fucking the nurse. I guess it's a porn fantasy. She took my pressure , then gave me a shot the same as K. Now there was a difference. She started stroking my cock and feeling my balls. If she would keep going I would cum in her hand. Then she gave me a shot, under my balls. All very quick and done before I could protest. She told me it was a sex enhanced shot and would take effect by the next day. We got dressed , but I wondered if we would see the nurse again.

That night I felt my cock stiff whenever I thought about sex. I was given strict instructions no sex or masturbating for 24 hours. In the morning my wife remarked that my cock seemed to bigger than usual, after I peeing it went down a bit and I relaxed.

All day Friday I felt more horny than usual and really needed to relieve myself. I waited until night time , fucking K like a madman. She loved it and went another three times, wearing her out. That must have been some shot they gave me, I kept going and going. Laying in bed K reached over and masturbated me , my cum flying upwards. I was now looking forward to the party.

The next night, Wendy called, telling K not to wear any jewelry , bra, or panties, just a sexy dress. We would be picked up a 7:30 and should be prompt. Getting into the car we were blindfolded because of security. Arriving at the party we were greeted by Wendy and and a naked girl who I remember as the nurse from the doctor's office. We were asked our sexual preferences, K was given a green wrist band which meant she want both men and women. I was given a yellow band, for women only. I cannot stomach fucking a woman together with another guy or seeing homo sex.

The naked nurse gave us a tour , showing us the different rooms with all kinds of sex going on. I came right out and asked her if I could fuck her, she smiled and said maybe later. I told her that shot was wonderful. They had to be careful because it was very powerful and cannot be given more than once in 25 days.

I passed by a room where I saw a young girl getting fucked, stopping ,my wife was shocked that interested me, she was of age but I liked it. I was going to fuck her in front of my wife. My wife went on without me as I watched the young girl fucking. This girl amazed me, such stamina, fucking like a super girl. I watched the other guy finish and then I took my turn, she was out of breath and shook her head no. Another young girl came over to me. I asked her how old she was and she told me 21, I swear she looked 16. I saw K looking through the window as I fucked the girl. I walked away after I was done. K was not happy but I told her she wanted to come, it was something I wanted to do, but I knew afterwards it wasn't right.

K went into the orgy room, I saw her being fucked by four guys. They finished with spraying their cum all over her face, body, and hair. I think that's terrible and degrading to do to a woman. She went to take a shower to get cleaned. In another room I saw a beautiful black woman who I got to fuck . Then the nurse came over to me and we fucked.

I went to the showers and found K having sex with another woman. I can stand there for hours and watch that, it turns me on so much. K saw me and joined me in the shower. We had sex together, just us two alone.

We really didn't think this was the greatest adventure. I guess it's because our life style is so great. I doubt it highly we will do this again, nothing special for us.

Fuck Buddies

Every guy, even a woman thinks a fuck buddy is terrific. I would first like to define what a fuck buddy is

Fuck Buddy: Definition " Someone who wants to satisfy their own sexual needs without caring for the needs of the fuckee or fucker" In other words it is basically a selfish relationship. This might not be bad, because we all have needs to be satisfied. When two consenting adults fuck together there is nothing wrong.

My wife and I have an open relationship. She has numerous women who she has sex with on a regular basis. She also has a man who she meets when her needs arise and fucks him to death.

I also have fuck buddies, fortunately no guys, just women. At present I have two, one is Cindy, a blond blue eyed m.i.l.f. and the other is Pattie, a beautiful ebony chocolate tanned women who fucks like an Amazon.

My wife and I don't hide our fuck buddies from each other. When she met her guy fuck buddy one time she told me to come along and watch from across the room, I did the same with her. We can each tell when we had sex with our fuck buddy because of the high energy sex we have with one another afterwards. We also discuss our fuck buddies with one another. We have learned about certain sexual desires we want from one another but were too bashful or shy to ask.

For example, I like my wife to stand over me and piss on me in the shower. I know it sounds kinky but her fuck buddy likes that and I told her we should try that too. My wife likes to be blindfolded and tied up and be spanked or have rough sex. My fuck buddy likes this and K asked me to try it with her. So we see there is a up side to a fuck buddy.

Pattie and I have been fuck buddies for over 10 years. We both knew this relationship is as far as we can go. Her family is black and would never accept me, I don't understand the logic but that's life.

She loves sex and is always horny. In fact she once came to visit me in my office on a pretense for a job position. She was wearing a raincoat, but was naked underneath. I loved her ideas and we fucked for a good two hours that afternoon.

Her breasts are like c antelopes, perfectly round and never effected by childbirth. Her ass is perfect and pussy always shaved. Her skin is without any blemishes or marks. The nipples stick out like erasers on the end of a pencil. She is not muscular or toned like K is. Instead is a little meaty, still I think the perfect body. We love to fuck together and enjoy each other. My white cum on her ebony skin is really something to see. We both love oral very much and will share our sex after we fuck. We will 69 afterwards and let it drip into my mouth.

We still know we are still serving our own individual lustful needs.

Cindy is a perfect M.I.L.F., she has two little kids but her body was never touched or altered by childbirth. Her husband is not well and they have no sex, I sense he knows she fucks me. He's a smart fellow, just because he has a problem why wreck a relationship. I know they love each other but she has needs to fill too. Her husband goes fishing with his brother, leaving Cindy and the kids alone. I know he doesn't do it to be mean because the fishing is good therapy for him. Cindy will then leave the kids with her mother and call me to fuck. She wants me to fuck her in her bed. I think she pretends that I am taking her husbands place. She likes to be spanked hard and to be tied up, also likes anal.

Cindy likes to hold my cock when I pee after sex. She directs it into the toilet and then suck me while I still have some drops left. She licks her lips and then she kisses me. She makes a point of doing this almost every time we have sex.

When I was younger in my twenties I had a landscaping business. I did very well but I wanted to do something else.

There was woman who had a very big house that was a customer of mine. Although she was in her forties, she was in great shape. I was very naive back then and didn't know a lot about sex or women. Well I received a good education with Carol and I graduated at the head of my class. When ever I came she dressed very slutty and by the pool she never wore her top. I noticed it and she came on to me. She taught me how to please a woman and how to fuck. Our relationship lasted about six months, we both went on to other people.

As I say again, a fuck buddy is not for everyone, but if you can handle it without getting emotionally attached it can be wonderful.

Bi Sexual Wife

When I first met K we instantly became sexual together. Fresh, new sex we both enjoyed and couldn't keep our hands off one another. We fucked as much as we wanted but there were times she wasn't available. I became insecure and we broke off for two months. I didn't know that she was Bi and she was afraid to tell me. I guess most men might find sharing their wife or girlfriend a threat, I did not. I dated other women but could not give up K, she felt good for me, both sexually and as a person.

I was out one Sat night at a club, I saw K kissing another woman, then I knew why she was busy sometimes. I didn't approach her, I just watched as both of them became passionate with one another, I liked it very much, it excited me sexually. I went home and masturbated thinking of them together fucking each other and me fucking both of them.

K worked near me and I knew her routine. I planned to bump into her accidentally at lunch. It was easy to do since she is such a creature of habit. We sat and ate lunch together making small talk. Then I asked her out on a date. It was like starting all over again, a fresh beginning, maybe it was better this way.

Our date was for Friday night, we went roller skating at The Piers. Then we went to eat at a cafe in the Village, a new place for her but I know the owner and I eat there often. I came clean and told her everything, my insecurity because she was busy for me. Then I told her about the club and it became clear. K started to cry because she thought I would be upset to share her with another person.

That night was a new beginning for us. K told me sex can be shared with other people, except there is a special sex with a husband . I agreed with the open sex policy and knew right then and there we were made for one another.

It took a long time until K and I started to live together. We loved one another but we also wanted our own space. There was an apartment in the City empty next door to me, K decided it would make sense to move there. It was convenient for us both, but still giving us space.

There was a porch railing in the back separating our apartments. I managed to have a gate installed ,this way both of us could go into each others apartment at any time.

A month or two after K moved in I finally got to see her have sex with another woman. Sure we talked about it and she admitted that she fucked other friends, but I never saw it, today would change. It happened that I needed toothpaste, for some odd reason I ran out. After taking a shower , dressed only in a robe I went over to K to see if she had and extra tube. We don't knock when we went to each other's place, we just go in unannounced.

At first when I went in I didn't hear any noise so I figured K was out and went straight to the closet to look for a tube. Then I heard whimpering and moaning coming from her bedroom. I was mesmerized since this is the first time I actually will hear K being fucked by someone else. I didn't know who she was fucking and it was not my business. but I wanted to hear anyways. Listening at the door I could tell it was another woman and I so much wanted to see them both. I had an idea. I went into the kitchen and managed to drop a pot from the stove onto the floor. Both K and her friend came running out naked to see what the noise was.

K is not stupid and asked me why I was here and I told her I was out of toothpaste. Then she asked me how long I was listening to them, I told her about 15 minutes. Both girls laughed and K came over to me, taking off my robe, leaving me naked like them. She took me by the hand, my cock hard as a rock and sat me in a chair in her bedroom. She told me to sit down, don't move and to watch them. The girls fucked , putting on a great show for me. K said something to her friend and then invited me to join them.

Needless to say I fucked them both, numerous times in every position possible, together and separately.

This was my first introduction into K's world of bi sexuality. She continues to this day, sometimes I am invited but most of the time not. It's something she wants and needs and I am OK with that.

First Post

Not everyone can think in the abstract, most people can only deal in black and white.

The purpose of this blog is to present thoughts and desires that would otherwise be considered taboo or do not fit in the confines of society.

Is it necessary for a married couple to only have sex together ? What happens if they desire other partners. What is so terrible about an open marriage or to have other lovers. If the relationship starts off that way and both partners want the open relationship, what is so bad. No one is cheating since there is always consent and the love between partners stay strong.

There is love sex and lust sex. Partners can have both but love sex always stays.